Remembering Sidney

Letters & memories

Sidney’s words, photographs, and the little things his family treasures—from childhood moments to a letter from a son to his father.

Saipan · August 24, 2003

Sidney’s first day of school

Sidney in his school uniform, carrying his school bag and metal lunch container in the lobby of his family’s residence in Saipan.
Four-year-old Sidney, ready for his first day of pre-kindergarten at Brilliant Star Montessori in Saipan on August 24, 2003, with his school bag and lunch. Photographed in the lobby of the family’s residence before his daddy drove him to school.

A childhood memory shared by his father, Ramon Cairo.

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Childhood memories · 2003

Helping Mommy in the kitchen

Sidney helping his mommy, Clarisa, in the kitchen—a family memory shared by his father, Ramon Cairo.

Original family photographs, preserved without alteration. Select a photograph to view it full size.

Saipan · November 8, 2003

Small hands, helping the community

At four years old, Sidney joined a community cleanup with Brilliant Star Montessori, helping clean one of the play structures at Pau Pau Beach in Saipan. His family remembers this day as an early example of his participation in caring for the community.

Sidney in a red shirt and light cap cleaning a colourful playground tunnel beside an adult volunteer, with a bucket and cleaning gloves nearby.
Sidney lending a hand during the school’s community cleanup at Pau Pau Beach. The original photograph is dated November 8, 2003.

His father, Ramon Cairo, recalls that Sidney was featured in a front-page photograph in a local Saipan newspaper covering the activity. The original newspaper feature has not yet been located.

Photograph and family recollection shared by Ramon Cairo. Original photograph preserved without alteration.

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Saipan · August–December 2003

A love of books, from the beginning

Visits to Joeten-Kiyu Library were a regular part of Sidney’s childhood in Saipan. He listened to stories read by a librarian, joined in art activities, and spent time exploring books. His parents introduced him to the library at an early age, nurturing a love of reading that he carried into adulthood.

A family memory shared by Ramon Cairo. Dates are shown on the original photographs, which are preserved without alteration. Select a photograph to view it full size.

Winnipeg · July 10, 2004

A new beginning in Canada

On July 10, 2004, five-year-old Sidney arrived in Winnipeg with his family as they immigrated to Canada from Saipan. This photograph captures the beginning of a new chapter in their lives.

Five-year-old Sidney holding a Canadian flag beside the family’s luggage on a Winnipeg airport trolley.
Sidney holding a Canadian flag upon the family’s arrival in Winnipeg on July 10, 2004. Photograph and memory shared by his father, Ramon C. Cairo.

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Sidney with family and friends gathered beside their luggage at the airport on arrival in Winnipeg.
A warm welcome from friends who greeted the Cairo family upon their arrival in Winnipeg on July 10, 2004. From left: Gladina Racines, Clarisa, Celia Cruz (at the back), Loida Manlapaz, Sidney, Divina Bueno, Carol Benedicto, and Rod Macabeo.

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Sidney’s own work · Europe, 2010

Europe through Sidney’s eyes

A family journey through Paris, England, Switzerland and Austria, told through Sidney’s photographs, observations and humour.

Read Sidney’s travel journal

To the greatest father any son could have

A letter from Sidney to his daddy, shared by Ramon Cairo. Date not recorded here.

Sidney’s two-panel blue letter to his father, with a childhood photograph and his signature. A readable transcription follows below.
Original family scan, preserved without alteration. Select the image to view it full size.

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Read Sidney’s letter

Transcribed from the supplied scan for readability. The original above remains the reference for exact typography and punctuation.

Daddy.... I’m sorry in advance for making you read all of this, but I probably can’t say all of what I’m going to write now in person. I want to start off by saying that you are the greatest father I could ever have. You’re smart, ever so resourceful and always willing to do anything, whatever it takes. You have this sense of humour that I didn’t get at first but now it amuses me and makes me happy even at the roughest times. You’re so caring and I know that you love me so much that you’d do anything for me. You’ve taken me around the world, taught and introduced me to new things and ideas. Even after a rough day at work, you come home with a warm and welcoming hug. Not all fathers do that. What I respect about you though is your courage and your understanding of life. You know what it feels like to be poor; you know what hard work is. You had the courage and the determination to fight your way out of it. You even help your own family by sending money to them every once in a while. It shows that you truly care about people, and that you’re not greedy. That’s what I respect about you. You’ve created almost this legacy of yourself, this story of starting from the bottom and getting to where you are today because you were driven by your determination. This legacy..... I can’t live up to. You see, I truly hate it when I let you down. It hurts me more than it hurts you. But even at times of when I have no hope left, you are always there to pick me up and push me forward. I want to thank you for that. Thanks for helping me, thanks for doing everything for me, thanks for believing in me... I owe you big time. Just remember, I will always be there for you too. Even if I’m not the greatest son out there, I will always love and take care of the greatest father I could ever have.

“I Love You Daddy

Love Your Son: Sidney Moen Cairo